Teens and tweens are masters at staying ahead of tech-savvy parents, but don't worry - you can catch up! Here are some critical tricks and hidden social media apps that kids use and what you can do about them.
Many apps, like GroupMe, Kik, Telegram, and even Instagram, have built-in browsers. This allows kids to visit websites without leaving a history trail in main browsers like Chrome or Safari.
Tip: Regularly monitor apps and conversations within them.
Apps can be hidden from the home screen, making quick checks ineffective. Kids may:
- Delete apps at home and redownload them later.
- Hide content within \"app libraries\" or folders.
Tip:
- Check the app library or download history in the App/Play Store.
- Look for unusual duplicate apps (e.g., 2 calculators).
Kids can selectively hide their stories from certain followers - including you - for just a few hours or indefinitely.
Tip: Pay attention to their normal posting rhythm. Sudden changes, especially during social events, could mean something's hidden.
If your child has more than one calculator app, it may be a vault app. These apps look harmless but hide:
- Secret photos, files, or other apps.
Tip: Discuss openly why vault apps are a red flag and explain the risks of hiding content.
Apps like Snapchat and WhatsApp allow real-time location sharing:
- Snap Map: Lets friends see your child's location. Some kids also share their locations publicly via "cOur Story."
- WhatsApp: Allows users to share precise location data down to a few meters.
Tip: Review privacy settings and turn off location-sharing features in all apps.
Beyond social media, unexpected platforms also allow chats, like:
- Gaming apps (Roblox, Clash of Clans)
- Fitness trackers (like Fitbit)
- Religious apps
These features can expose kids to online predators or inappropriate messages.
Tip: Evaluate every app your child downloads for hidden message boards or chatrooms.
Stay informed and involved - with tools like Bark and open communication, you can keep your kids safe from hidden dangers.